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Why do North Indians, living in Bangalore, not bother to learn Kannada?

10.06.2025 10:28

Why do North Indians, living in Bangalore, not bother to learn Kannada?

I have been to Bangalore,never felt like a need to know the local tongue because hindi is commonly understood.

India has amazing potential,don't kill it for your petite ego or lack of self-esteem

People don't mingle because they speak the same language but they usually mingle out of need and interests.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

In reality even if you will get a single person who cares for you,listens to you then it's nothing short of a miracle but it's beyond my understanding why people are wasting their precious time in fighting for the self created issues.

If they will show the same dedication in the right direction then you wouldn't find a single poor person in Karnataka.

I mean it's hilarious that without any specifics,they tag crores of people as Bimaru though affluent people never really care about BIMARU but they do, probably they are even worse

Have you ever gone to a porn theater with your wife?

I have grown up in the north and there were many southies around,we never really bothered if they knew Hindi or our local language because our relevance /existence isn't dependent on them.

Bimaruuuuuuu.

Mostly I see faceless people getting their daily orgasm by calling others Bimaru.

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In reality ( not on social media) people care about relevant things.

Because it's not required otherwise they would be comfortably speaking your language.

On Quora you can make any irrelevant thing into relevant by adding a spice called identity.

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